Lessons on a Dom

From Richard Windsor's collection.

He leads. His self-control is matched only by his ability to control any particular situation, led by an unwavering moral code of honesty, respect, and integrity. He is imperfect but secure enough to recognize his shortcomings.
 
When he fucks, he means it — sometimes with a selfish abandon designed for his pleasure only, sometimes with a sweet tenderness that seems contradictory to his alpha make-up. He is alternately gruff and gentle, quick to judge and slowly deliberating. When he makes a decision, he stands by it.
 
He is a Dom. His authority is ever-present; this makes him a Dom, not a Top. His Domliness is as essential and unobtrusive as skin — it is who he is.

Unafraid to take control, he is equally unafraid to show tenderness, sensitivity and caring at the appropriate times. This doesn’t make him weak; this makes him strong. This, not his cock, makes him a man.
 
Knowing that respect breeds respect, he respects those who call him “Sir”. He regards it as a title earned through his actions, not simply because he was born a man and is, thus, entitled to it.

He spanks hard. He loves deeply. He honors his word and holds his submissive to the same high standard because he knows her worth.
 
This is my Dom. This is the man I am fortunate to call my own. I’ve never seen him lose his temper; he’s never spanked or spoken to me in anger. He respects me, and I call him “Sir”.